How did you finish your course so early?she asked! 'S' was taken aback. They are both meeting after many years. Colleagues in the previous place where both of them studied, life had taken them in different directions before bringing them together for a brief meeting. And this question was asked during this brief meeting.
Why couldn't have they exchanged pleasantries and wished each other well and just moved on? Both are doing fairly well. Both are living in two different cities, both are not competitors anymore in their businesses. But when they meet again, the competitive spirit which they had during their college days resurfaced; albeit slightly.
This got me thinking! Are we competitive by instinct? Or have we developed the competitiveness as we grew up. Are some more competitive than others? Do we have that instinct to perform better than the other from birth? Or do we compete with others as we start growing up with them?
I remember a friend 'J' telling me that one of the life time achievement is to have got more marks than this person in their class 'X' board exams. Life time achievement? To get more marks than another?
Some times that kind of competitiveness is scary! They can be morally hazardous too!
Can we teach the human kind to compete within rather than without? To compete with themselves. To be better people, to achieve their best, to be better than the previous me? Can systems which assess be tweaked to assess our previous best to the current best?
But then what will the world come down to if we stop being competitive? Imagine sport without the greatest of rivalries? I'm very sure that Nadal became a better player because he played against Federer! What if there was no Michael Schumacher around? Will we have a Hakkinen then? How do we push ourselves if we have nobody to compete with? The entire market economy will collapse, and the best of actors will find it difficult to motivate themselves to set bench marks.
What do you think folks? Which one do you prefer? Is competing with others good? Or competing with oneself better?
But then what will the world come down to if we stop being competitive? Imagine sport without the greatest of rivalries? I'm very sure that Nadal became a better player because he played against Federer! What if there was no Michael Schumacher around? Will we have a Hakkinen then? How do we push ourselves if we have nobody to compete with? The entire market economy will collapse, and the best of actors will find it difficult to motivate themselves to set bench marks.
What do you think folks? Which one do you prefer? Is competing with others good? Or competing with oneself better?
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